Ohhhh…if we could only dream what we wanted every night and also remember it! If we only could! Well, it is almost impossible to do it every night, but like anything, practice can make you good at it.
When people research lucid dreaming, they normally have one of two things in mind. One, is how to have flying dreams. Two, is how to have sex dreams, which is what we will vow to conquer in this article.
You are here for the first, of course, so lets cut to the chase and get straight to the best known methods on how to dream about sex.
Simply, by sleeping on your stomach with your arms above your head can increase your chances of having a sex dream according to a study that was published in the journal called Dreaming.
They were also more likely to have dreams about bondage or hooking up with a celebrity.
The bondage part can be attributed to having your arms above your head, but the celebrity connection can’t be really explained.
The theorized reason you are more likely to have a sex dream by sleeping on your tummy is your genital area is being rubbed/touched to the bed while you sleep.
I can vouch for the “genital area being rubbed” method. 9 times out of 10 when I have a sex dream, I wake up on my belly hunching my bed. The thought is funny, but it is true!
Either don’t wear anything or wear something sexy feeling to bed. By going to bed naked you create more freedom and feeling for your body while you sleep.
This accompanied with snuggling with your partner can also lead to having that fantasy dream you yearn for.
If you choose to wear something, make it a minimum if you are a guy and make it a sexy night gown if you are a lady.
The right mindset before you go to sleep is the key in the clothing or lack there of.
Speaking of mindset, it is all about the mind in the first place. Your mind does the dreaming so you must give the mind what it needs by preparing it.
And the way we prepare it, is by thinking about what we want to dream about, which on this occasion, is sex.
Try thinking about it the entire time you are trying to fall asleep. You should drift off to sleep thinking about it and you may get lucky and the thoughts continue when you are asleep.
Once you are in fact dreaming, and know you are dreaming, the task is still not over. However, the hardest part (you are dreaming and know that you are which is called lucid dreaming) has been achieved, but you didn’t come this far to fail/not have sex.
If you think you can just walk over to somebody and start doing the hanky panky, think again. Dreams, more times than not, have rules per-say that your mind creates just because that is how you are.
By walking over to the person in your dream and attempting the act, right then and there, will typically go against the deep senses of your brain and can cause all sorts of things to go wrong.
The most popular, terrible outcome is the person changes or transforms to an ugly person, creature, or even an object.
Then, before you know it, you lose the dream all together and you find yourself running through a field or awake in your bed calling yourself a loser, for example. That is exactly what we DO NOT want to happen.
Dream characters work a lot like real people. Your mind makes it that way because that is what it knows.
The best advice to follow is you can control who the person is and even the situation, since it is your dream, but don’t try and control the person in your dream.
When you start trying to do this, things usually go awry. Besides, who wants to have sex with a robot? This is basically what you are doing and why your brain may not play along.
The best thing to do is treat them like you would someone that you know is attracted to you. This should be self explanatory, but to be brief, make eye contact, smile, caress them, kiss them, and it leads to the goal.